Some couples naturally assume that porn just doesn't belong in a relationship. They already have everything they'll ever need in the bedroom. Sexually-speaking, they are absolutely covered. Though this mindset might make sense, considering that one would hope their partner is completely happy with them, it's really not entirely true. There will always be ways a relationship can be spiced up, and adult entertainment isn't the unspeakable curse that some people have it pegged as. In fact, there can be some major benefits to watching adult films together that most couples may not even consider. If you find yourself trying to keep porn far away from your relationship, then you may need a crash course in couples porn. Keep reading to find out how porn helps keep couples attracted to each other.
Porn the Destroyer. Couples tend to either hide the fact that they watch their own porn or they simply don't watch it at all. There's been a longstanding stigma surrounding the inclusion of porn in a relationship, and it's left people feeling unsure as to whether or not they should keep it far away. As it turns out, everyone's worrying way too much.
The basis of the issue. On the surface level, the argument against porn in a relationship kind of, sort of makes sense. Both partners are getting off to strangers, they're becoming a bit desensitized to hardcore sex and they may not exactly be quite as in the mood for actual sex seeing as they've wasted their climax on self-service.
Breaking the stigma. To all the haters, step aside. Porn is not nearly as bad as it's been made out to be, and even (or maybe especially) in a relationship, porn can play quite a positive role. It's not going to inspire your man to leave you for his laptop — but it may end up bringing the two of you closer together.
Pornographic research. To get a better understanding of the effects of porn in relationships, social-science researchers have delved into the situation to get some first-hand results. The research consisted of a study involving roughly 300 men, and the outcome was not what anyone might've expected.
Sex appeal. The study was conducted by UCLA sexual psychophysiologist, Nicole Prause, and though she was first trying to discover if watching porn had any part to play in bringing upon erectile dysfunction in men. What they found out, however, was that the men became actually more aroused by their partner after watching their "visual sexual stimuli."
The study. The men in the study were broken up into a three categories. There were the men who didn't watch
any porn, men who only watched about two hours per week and and men who indulged a bit more. The ones who watched more wanted more sex with their partner.
Second opinions. Prause had authored a separate study just two years prior that essentially focused on the same basic idea. The more porn a couple watches, the more turned on they'll be for each other. It doesn't scare them away or make them feel letdown by the comparison. They were simply just hornier.
Dirty movies. Surely for adolescents playing tug of rope in their Fruit of the Looms, their sexual appetites must be off the charts. They must become sexual animals, right? According to a study titled, "The Impact of Internet Pornography on Adolescents," that isn't true at all.
Far from filth. Despite what you have been taught or what your personal feelings are regarding porn, it's hardly as morally vicious as you might believe. It doesn't lead to excessive promiscuity and teens aren't more likely to engage in sex at a younger age just because they've jerked off to a low quality video.
Education through porn. Sex Ed isn't necessarily the place that most adolescents figure out the function of a penis and vagina. They may learn about the textbook explanations, but when it comes to watching porn, teens are experiencing the real thing. They're not hurting anyone — just enjoying themselves and learning in the process.
In the mood. One of the major benefits of watching porn is learning. It can teach you about a new position you've never even considered or it can teach you how to behave more intimately. Sure, most porn can be a bit more over the top, but that's not necessarily always the case. You just have to choose wisely.
Say "bye" to "shy." Porn may help break some couples of their shells. For some people, sex can feel a bit awkward. Not everyone is on the same level exactly when it comes to body confidence — and, really, just confidence altogether.
Beliefs. So if you can get past your beliefs, open up to porn in an attempt to better open up to each other.
Togetherness. If you have any reservations surrounding porn, try to get a grip (if you're a guy, literally). Porn is not going to tear your relationship apart.
Open. If anything, it's going to make the two of you more open to embracing your sexuality and engaging in acts that you might not normally engage in.
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