15 Traits Women Look For In A Man

Just like there are some traits most guys want in women, there are certain qualities all ladies look for in prospective partners.  We're talking more than just attraction here.  Check out these 15 intangible — but oh-so-sexy — traits women look for in their men.

Brains. Simply put, intelligence is sexy. Women like a worldly, interesting man they can learn from. Plus, being with a smart partner affords women a level of reassurance that their needs will be satisfied with better communication and understanding. In short, it makes women feel secure.

A sense of humor. A good sense of humor is undeniably one of the most important qualities a guy can possess. How do you think Judd Apatow landed the gorgeous Leslie Mann? Exactly. What men lack in looks they can make up for with a killer sense of humor.

Kind and caring. Sure, bad boy types are hot, but once that sexual attraction fizzles out women want someone that will inspire confidence. They want someone who will make them feel good — like a best friend, a partner and an equal.

Assertiveness. Ladies love a man who’s not fickle-minded and believes in his decisions. Plus spontaneous, strong-minded men who know how to take charge of a situation are the ultimate turn on.

Sensitivity. While no one wants to date a doormat, who can resist a guy with a heart of gold? Also crucial, a man must be able to listen to and empathize with his partner. Ladies want someone who can put himself in her shoes and provide comfort when times get tough.

Confidence. When a man is sure of himself and his actions reflect it, women will be naturally drawn to him. A man who feels secure in his own skin makes the woman he’s with feel secure too. Ever notice that the truly confident men never poster around, have ego-trips, or start beefs? Us too.

Charisma. Who likes vanilla men? Certainty not most women. Ladies adore a charming, big personality — it’s irresistible.

Balance. Women are delighted by a man who leads a balanced lifestyle. He's a true catch; prioritizing a job, family, friends and a relationship is no easy feat.

Loyalty. In most relationships, faithfulness is a big deal. It’s insulting for a woman if the man she’s with hits on other women, or cheats. It’s also important for most women to be reassured that their partner isn’t going anywhere, especially if it’s a serious, long-term commitment. He should be able to communicate his intentions without confusion.

Thoughtfulness. Being thoughtful doesn’t mean pulling out all the stops on a third date. Rather, being thoughtful means showing a woman that you care. Consideration is hot.

Honesty. It takes guts to be honest. And when a man is consistently honest with a woman, it shows her that he’s trustworthy. White lies are okay — just avoid any that are tinted with gray.

Go with the flow. He can relax and let things unfold, out of his control. He doesn't freak out when plans change and he rolls with the punches. He doesn't stick to the same humdrum routine, but welcomes the new, and explores it with you.

Reliability. Woman look for men who make commitments and follow through. When a guy is responsible, it sends the positive message that he could be ready to commit someday.

Passion. Ever notice how women always melt for rock stars? It’s because they’re passionate. Whether it’s cooking or art, a man who is passionate about something shows a woman that he cares about things outside himself. Swoon!

Goal-oriented. He has career goals (not just a job). Women like winners. And if a man demonstrates talent and goal achievement, he instills confidence that he will ultimately be a good provider. Keep in mind, though, that a successful man is just an advantage — it’s not enough to carry an entire relationship.