Sexy Games You’re Not Playing In Bed Yet

Okay, let’s try a little word association. When we say the word “games,” what comes to mind? You’re probably thinking about Scrabble, Monopoly, Boggle, Trivial Pursuit, Pictionary, UNO, Operation — like actual board games or card games. What about “sexy games?” What comes to mind when you hear those words. Perhaps Naked Twister? We’re talking about something a little sexier than that. Keep reading to find out the sexy games you're not playing in bed just yet, but the ones you should definitely try out sometime this week. How's tonight work for you?

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Warmer or colder. Pick a spot on your body. Let’s say maybe the small of your back. But you can decide. Now, have your partner guess the spot on your body that you’re thinking about. Let them know if they’re getting colder or warmer based on how close or far away they are from getting it right.

Two truths and a lie. Sure, it’s childish, but hear us out. Stand on opposite sides of the room facing each other fully clothed. One of you will tell two truths and a lie. If the other guesses incorrectly, they strip. If they guess correctly, you strip. Keep playing until you don’t care who’s lying and who is telling the truth anymore.

The stand. Stand at opposite sides of the room, facing each other, completely nude. Then walk slowly toward each other. This could work in the hallway as well. Keep walking toward each other until you’re almost touching noses then just stand and wait to see who breaks and touches the other first. Either way, you both win.

Timer. Grab a kitchen timer. Turn it to a certain amount of time when your eyes are closed, don’t peek. When you open them, let your partner know how much time they’ve got. 1 minute. 3 minutes. 45 seconds. They’ve got that amount of time to do whatever they want to you, and only that amount of time. Then it’s your turn.

Timer. Another thing you can do with the timer. Turn it to a certain amount of time when your eyes are closed, don’t peek. When you open them, let your partner know how much time they’ve got. Then tell them they have that amount of time to make you orgasm, or there will be punishment. See how hard your partner works to get you off.

What’s in my mouth. This is a variation of the cold and hot game. Sean Jameson described the game in detail for YourTango. First off, you’ve got to bring him somewhere where you two can be alone. It doesn’t even have to be the bedroom. But make sure it’s somewhere where you wouldn’t mind making a mess.

Mouth. Next, put something in your mouth while his eyes are closed. “Take a little scoop of ice cream into your mouth and start to very slowly give him oral sex,” Jameson writes. You’ll shock him if you do this too quickly, so be careful. He’ll then guess what it is in your mouth.

Right. If he guesses correctly, you can reward him by continuing to pleasure him a bit more. If not, you’ll have to punish him. Make sure it’s something consensual that you both agree on. Maybe a spanking. "Next, you can then switch to something completely different ... like some warm honey,” Jameson continues.

Games. Vanessa Marin also wrote a bit about sexy games for Bustle. The guessing game was her first suggestion. Have your partner promise to keep their eyes closed, and blindfold them. Have them lie down on the bed, and once you’re sure they can’t see a thing, prepare the items.

Items. Marin suggests a paddle, a silk scarf of neck tie, an ice cube, a feather, or body-safe candle wax. "As they’re being touched with each item, the sub has to guess what the item is,” Marin writes. "A correct guess might elicit a reward, while an incorrect one might earn a ‘punishment,' like spanking."

Sensory deprivation. We’re cutting out the senses in this game. You can blindfold your partner. Put noise-cancelling headphones on them. Put something over their mouth so they can’t moan (make sure this is okay first before trying). “Or tie the sub to the bed, so they can’t touch the Dom,” Marin writes.

Control. Clothing is a very fun element to play with in the bedroom. Try allowing your partner to take control of you, or vice versa. “Allow the Dom to pick what the sub wears,” Marin writes. "The Dom can choose sexy lingerie, accessories, or role-playing outfits, or demand that the sub be naked all day.”

From afar. Have your partner lie down on the bed. You’ll be in the other room. You’ll both have your phones. Text your partner to do something to themselves and send a video or picture confirming they’ve done it. You can up the ante until you both are racing from other side’s of the house to have sex.

Doll. We thought this one was particularly fun. Turn your partner into a sex doll for the night. Marin writes, "The sub tries their best to remain still and not make a noise. The Dom can position the sub as they like and do what they please.” It’s important to have a safe word, Marin explains. And to establish boundaries before play.

You. What do you think? What are some of the sexy games you and your partner play together? Were any of these suggestions something you two would be interested in? Did we leave anything out? Let us know in the comments section below. You know we had to ask!