Although the majority of men believe they’ve acquired the skills necessary to successfully arouse and pleasure a female partner during physical intimacy, the truth may be slightly less optimistic. The expectations for sexual intimacy by men and women have often been observed to vary significantly, depending upon the particular issue in question. While media outlets and pornography continue to dictate “norms” for sexual behavior and interpersonal relationship dynamics, these now archetypal ideas and actions are often found to vary significantly from the inner workings of a healthy, positive and rewarding emotional and physical relationship between a man and woman.
Respect Her Decisions
It’s common knowledge that a woman’s arousal levels are directly linked to her emotional state. Unlike men, who rely heavily on physical appeal to determine a woman’s “attractiveness,” women typically do not evaluate prospective partners in this fashion. Because of this, a man seeking to gain attention, both emotional and physical, from a female partner should first learn to respect her thoughts and actions. Although the idea of physical intimacy with an attractive female is obviously compelling, this is by no means a “go ahead” to engage in direct, disrespectful dialogue with a partner that serves to objectify or harass them. If, when discussing physical intimacy with a new partner, a woman expresses her doubts or hesitation at pursuing a physical relationship, these sentiments should be respected and upheld by her partner. This level of care and devotion can only help to strengthen the physical and emotional attraction between a women and her partner, ensuring rewarding physical intimacy at a later point.
Make Her Feel Comfortable
No one enjoys feeling preyed upon, and men should ensure that their partners do not feel pressured or influenced into sexual action at any point. One of the most influential component of a rewarding sexual relationship is mutual respect. By ensuring that a woman knows her thoughts and actions are of equal importance to that of her male partner, a level of comfort and peace can be reached that will further strengthen emotional and physical ties, leading to increased arousal and pleasure during sex.
Listen to Her
No one enjoys being ignored, much less an intimate partner. If you’re emotionally invested in a relationship with a woman, no matter how long it’s been in existence, you should ensure that she feels she has an open platform through which to discuss issues of special importance or relevance to her. A surefire way to destroy arousal levels and the desire for physical intimacy is to ignore a romantic partner. If your female companion feels that she’s being used for sex, it’s almost guaranteed that you’ve turned her off indefinitely. Not only will this damage your sex life, it will almost certainly ruin the opportunity to develop a meaningful relationship.
Respect Her Decision to Wait
A significant number of both men and women have actively made the decision to abstain from sex until marriage. Because of this, neither members of a relationship should mock or chide the other if they are a virgin. Although this may be a point of contention for certain individuals, it also serves as an example of dedication and care that the virgin partner has been willing to pursue prior to meeting their future life partner.
Don’t Rush to Conclusions
Although “experienced” men may think they’ve known enough men to easily categorize and objectify future partners, this ignorant approach to interpersonal relationships can only serve to damage the likelihood of ever entering into a rewarding and loving life with another individual. Before developing a “plan of action” designed to attract a woman, allow yourself to discover her unique characteristics and personality organically, i.e. through conversation and honest dialogue. Through this, men can show that they care enough about their partner to take the time to learn “all there is to know.” This will definitely help increase passion and energy in future intimate interactions.
Treat Her as an Equal
No matter how your opinions and feelings may change towards a romantic partner as a relationship develops, both men and women should always treat their partners with a level of respect their, would expect be given to themselves. Respect is a crucial part of trusting, loving relationships and can help enhance pleasure and passion on an emotional and physical level. Unless you’re willing to embrace the independent thoughts, actions and preferences of your partner, you may not be ready for a physical or emotional relationship.
Be Honest
Communicate your thoughts, feelings and opinions with your partner, particularly if they relate to a particular element of your relationship with them that, in your mind, needs to be addressed. By demonstrating that you respect your partner enough to engage in honest conversation with them, you can ensure that the times you share together, both intimate and otherwise, will be of the highest possible quality.
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